I had to share this… because currently this is the phrase that keeps replaying in my head?
Where’s your confidence?
I heard this a while back and it shook me up maybe hurt my feelings alittle. Its funny. I always thought I stood tall and had such confidence in everything that I did. I have fussed and complained and whined about it but I pushed through it and got it done. There has not been anything that I focused my mind to that I have NOT gotten or accomplished. Correction Not without God and a little focus.
But what is confidence?

Is it the way a person acts? Is it the way the present themselves? Is it just how you carry yourself? I think its a combination of the above not to mention ambition. You cant say confidence without visualizing ambition. If you know what you want go for it! If at first you don’t succeed then try try again. If it is at least in your grasp. If at first you don’t succeed then try try again. If not then by all means back down. No use in killing the little bit of pride you have left. You cant have everything and you sure cant have the cake and eat it too. LOL! Soooo…
Dictionary.com defines as
1 belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance
2 full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing:
So After reading definition #1 one might believe that if you believe in yourself you have confidence. I look good , can do anything why wouldn’t you want to be around me etc. Ahhh but, according to definition #2 its a trust and reliability thing. Meaning I’m trusting you to make the right decision for the both of us. LOL! RRRIIIGGGHHHT! (Dont hold your breathe for this one!)

So to each it’s own I assume. I’m sticking with the first one believe in yourself I cant stress it enough. There are not many people I have confidence in nowdays for the simple fact if you put too much trust in people they WILL disappoint you. You are less likely to disappoint yourself. Believe in you and do you, because nobody is gonna do it for you…. I continue everyday with the knowledge that I don’t have to please anyone but God and myself.
So what is confidence to you?